About Me

I built this because nothing like it existed when I needed it.

I went through my own breakup with an avoidant ex confused, spiraling, and watching everything fall apart while getting nothing but useless advice from therapists, Reddit, and friends who meant well but didn’t get it.

I tried the no contact. I tried the “focus on yourself” thing. None of it worked. Because none of it was built for my situation or yours.

So I did what most people don’t.

I studied the patterns. Attachment theory. Power dynamics. Identity shifts. How people fall in and out of love. I stopped looking for advice and started building systems that actually reverse the damage.

And then I started helping other people do the same.

Today, I coach men and women through the darkest part of their breakup and show them how to reconnect with the person they love without chasing, begging, or pretending to move on.

I’ve helped clients get their ex back after months of silence, after being blocked, after rebound relationships, after ugly fights, even after being told “never again.”

This isn’t mindset coaching. This isn’t therapy.

It’s direct, personalized strategy based on how your ex is wired and what’s actually going to move the needle.

I don’t work with everyone.

But if your ex really mattered to you and you’re done wasting time on random advice that doesn’t apply to your situation then I’ll show you what to do.